Resistance is Futile!

Are you in such a hurry to seek out all the answers to your future life; why things aren’t changing for you; why you can’t get over a chronic illness, why you’re not in your dream job or your own business with your dream income stream by now? You think you will get all these answers from your guides, so – are you trying to connect with your spirit guides but don’t know why you still can’t connect. After all, it is our individual birth right to have help from our guides in finding our mission and purpose, right? So - what are you doing wrong?

Well – perhaps the answer lies in what you AREN’T doing, rather than what you are doing. And – maybe your guides ARE communicating, however, YOU ARE RESISTING their help and guidance, AND YOU ARE RESISTING having your dream life!!

Right now, I hear you saying that you wouldn’t possibly resist any guidance you receive and you would welcome the guides coming to talking with you.

The thing is, people don’t know the ‘Spiritual’ definition of RESISTENCE.

These are just some of the things which put your energy field into resistance and block you from both connecting with your guides, and being able to receive the necessary data for recognising synchronicities, ideas, creativity, connections with other humans who could help, DNA upgrades or creating the new version of yourself. The following are all forms of resistance in the Universe’s eyes:

• Impatience – are you someone who reads self help books, watches videos, even have received some training by a mentor to learn how to connect. Then you ‘try’ meditating, or using tools you’ve learnt. However, you only use them once or twice – or just for a week. But you say to yourself that you’re not finding any difference whatsoever. You are no nearer to communicating – hearing or seeing any guides. So, you give up far too quickly. You stop practicing far too quickly. You just continue to seek other books or videos as this time you’ll receive that magic wand that does it all for you and you’ll instantly connect with your guides as clear as day.
• Frustration – you’ll be saying “why can’t I connect”, “no matter what I try to do, it doesn’t happen”. And variations on this theme.
• When you say “I’m trying”, this means you are finding things difficult. getting frustrated (as above). There is no clear intention here to request what you want.
• Avoidance – yes, it can always be done tomorrow. Though “tomorrow never comes”!!! And I know it can feel like hard work when you don’t seem to be getting anywhere. And when it feels like hard work or your need to get out of your comfort zone to solve a problem, you really don’t want to face things, so you do everything else or make up excuses not to face things.
• High expectations – people always expect an outcome, and they expect something to happen immediately.
• Not listening – have you being getting signs and synchronicities BUT you haven’t taken note of them. Does a book or a piece of paper continually drop no matter how many times you pick it up. Does an annoying advert or programme keep coming up on the TV – this may contain a message.
• Blaming your circumstance, your feelings etc on others.
• Not forgiving. This only serves to create a weakness in YOUR body.
• Addictive habits – very similar energy to avoidance – doing anything but practicing, but it’s also consuming low vibrational food. It can be chocolate, sweet things, drinking coffee food (this is not an absolute given – I do drink coffee and chocolate, in moderation, and I can still connect – but the connection could possibly be even better if my body was clear to raise my frequency even more).
• Taking it all too seriously – just don’t! Our guides love to have fun and it raises your vibration.
• Having too much clutter – even physical clutter, ie in a room can symbolise too much clutter in your head so you don’t have clarity.

This list is by no means exhaustive, but it gives you a good idea of what causes the blockages to communicating. In essence, resistance is anything that lowers your frequency. And you may see a pattern here into why you are not receiving other desires in your life – the more you resist anything, the more it actually pushes it away from your field.

What to do Instead

So, where can you start to change this? Here’s a starting point. It is far easier to start by making ONE change. Don’t attempt to change everything overnight as it will be overwhelming. Look at the list above and choose just one thing to change TODAY. As you can imagine, it’s basically doing the opposite of resistance:

Ask your question or state your intention to receive – imagine it going out to the Universe. Be very specific, but at the same time don’t limit yourself. Write it down – this makes it more potent. I am now going to say meditate on it. This is simply being quiet enough to hear/see/feel your request being answered. You do not have to be seated crossed legs – going out into nature is the perfect vibration for receiving.

My answers can take days or weeks to become fully apparent if it requires a series of events and synchronicities to happen. Read your request every morning as a reminder. Then forget about it for the rest of the day as it’s energy is then resonating with you – ie your radar is magnetising that particular energy to come to you. You may even want to add to or adapt your request as you feel into that energy more. Not expecting answers or receiving tangible things that instance is having patience. Watch out or listen very carefully for synchronicities – they could be anywhere and in any form. Never look for the outcome as this is limiting – you may receive something better! Never give up (unless it really becomes apparent that you are requesting something that really isn’t meant to be). You might just be on the cusp of suddenly hearing or seeing a guide (or whatever your main clair... is at that time). Imagine if you’ve given up and you were nearly there.

Clear your house or car of any clutter so you are clearing any stagnant energy.

Having patience does NOT mean, sitting around waiting for an answer to give you a decision. YOU must make all your decisions. Don’t avoid making decisions. We cannot ask the guides if we should go for this job or start this business. If you feel compelled to open the doors to something new just go for it! Though the key is to take a few steps. For a new business – don’t go spending all your savings and waiting for everything to be in place before you start – just put the word out on what your doing and see what response you get. Businesses begin by just having a few clients to know what works. AND you begin to have more “downloads” about expanding the business or how you can help clients by the very fact that you are taking action and allowing the lightcodes to be shared where they need to go. Remember just that ONE ACTION TO CHANGE is all it takes to start on your road to clearing your blocks to receiving anything.